Amber's calls to Peterson intrigue psychologists
November 22, 2003

As news reports of the missing Laci Peterson kicked into high gear Dec. 26, Amber Frey
abruptly broke her pattern of calling her boyfriend an average of once a day.


While it's unclear when Frey learned that the man she had been dating, Scott Peterson, was married
and his pregnant wife missing since Christmas Eve, she called him 14 times the day after Christmas.


The Fresno massage therapist may have been in shock and in denial, leading to her first
call to Modesto police four days later, two nationally recognized psychology experts said.


A review of cell phone records revealed  near the conclusion of Scott Peterson's preliminary
hearing
brings into clearer focus his relationship with the secret lover he initially denied having.

For example:

-Frey made the first advance, calling Peterson three times on Nov. 19 after getting
his number from a friend. He called her four times over the next three days.


-She has said she met the Modesto fertilizer salesman Nov. 20, and they began dating.
At that point Peterson told her "that not only had he not ever been married, he'd never
been in a serious relationship before," Detective Jon Buehler testified at the hearing.


-The couple exchanged no calls Dec. 24. Authorities have said they
believe Peterson killed his wife that morning or the night before.


-Peterson called Frey four times on Dec. 31. That evening, more than 1,000 people
held aloft glowing candles in a tearful vigil for the missing mother-to-be
whose dimpled smile appeared on posters all over town.


-Peterson rang his girlfriend six times on Jan. 6 -- the highest number of calls he made to her on
any single day of their relationship. That was the day he told Frey that his wife was Laci Peterson.


-Frey, cooperating with police, pretended to be stunned. Buehler said he was at her side during
the
23-minute phone conversation.  Peterson told Frey he was "longing to hold onto you."

-The next day, the former lovers spent 100 minutes together on a single call.

-Although investigator Steve Jacobson said no calls were exchanged on Valentine's Day,
phone records obtained by The Bee show that Frey called Peterson once that day.

Jacobson testified that he obtained only cell phone records.

-Also, Frey used another phone Feb. 13-15, according to Jacobson's report,
and a source said Frey's cell phone was out of service those days.


In all, Peterson called Frey 125 times, and she dialed him 119 times.
That is a total of 244 calls over 93 days starting five weeks before Laci Peterson disappeared
and ending when Frey told Peterson to quit phoning her in a final three-minute call Feb. 19.


About not being married

* That Peterson had a girlfriend could provide authorities with an explanation for
why he might kill his wife. During the lengthy preliminary hearing, prosecutors
painted a picture of a man impassioned with another woman.


* Peterson initially lied to his girlfriend about being married.

* The business associate who had set up Peterson with Frey discovered his deception Dec. 6 and
confronted him, Detective Al Brocchini
testified. Peterson told her "that he sometimes tells people
he's married, and he tells some people he's not married, because he's lost his wife," Brocchini said.


* Peterson told Frey on Dec. 9 that he had "lost his wife," Buehler testified.  "She could see tears coming
out of his eyes going down his cheek," Buehler said. "She could hear his stomach making noises.
She was sitting very close to him at the time. They were holding hands."

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The point at which Frey learned the truth hasn't been made public. But some psychology
experts say an abnormal peak in her calls to Peterson -- Dec. 26, coinciding with
intensifying reports on the missing Laci Peterson -- could speak volumes.


"At the point that facts started flying around, I think (Frey) got scared, panicked and probably
became very frightened that she could become implicated," said Dr. Robi Ludwig, a
New York City psychotherapist and frequent TV newsmagazine commentator.


"I don't know if that got expressed by her making many phone calls, hoping she
was wrong,wishing she was wrong, praying she was wrong," Ludwig continued.
"Here was this guy she really wanted to believe in."


Frey passed a police lie detector test regarding involvement in Laci Peterson's demise.

If Frey became aware of the situation Dec. 26, it took her four days to approach police.

Ludwig explained the delay: "Denial. She's hoping that this man she's very
passionate about is who she thinks he is. Once she goes to police, she has
to grieve that relationship because calling police ends that relationship."


Perhaps Frey hoped to convince Peterson to "come forward on his own,"
speculated Dr. Evan Nelson, a Virginia forensic psychologist who recently
testified at the trial of Washington, D.C., sniper defendant Lee Boyd Malvo.


Or maybe Frey was afraid Peterson would point the finger at her and bolt.
Or that she would be hounded by the media, Nelson said.


"All those are possibilities," said Nelson, who has testified in 300 murder cases. "But it's all
guesswork. Frequently what the public sees (initially) and what comes out in trial isn't the same."


Ruth Jones, a criminal law professor at McGeorge School of Law in Sacramento, said a normal
reaction in Frey's case would be to "want to talk to the person first" before deciding a course of action.


"Think of all the people who knew Scott Peterson," continued Jones, a former New York City
prosecutor. "Not one immediately said, 'Oh, my God -- maybe it was Scott.' That's one of the things
that make this case so dramatic. You can't look in (someone's) eyes and say he's a killer."


In televised interviews in late January, Peterson said he told his wife about the affair in early
December. Laci Peterson's family and friends have expressed doubt about that statement.


Peterson also said he immediately told police about Frey when officers responded to a missing
person call Dec. 24. But a detective testified that Peterson denied the affair at that point, and it
appears that authorities didn't know about Frey until she came forward Dec. 30.


Calls to Laci's friends

Frey has not granted media interview requests since, speaking publicly only twice: at a
January news conference arranged by police and in May to announce she had hired a lawyer.


But Frey did reach out to people close to Laci Peterson, calling the then-missing woman's
friends and family members 53 times over seven weeks starting the day after she
went public about her relationship with Scott Peterson. She hoped to assure
them she had no idea he was married, sources said.


Frey also called detectives more than 200 times through mid-March.

Although Frey's calls to Scott Peterson were fairly regular both before and after Laci
was reported missing, she dialed him more than fives times a day only twice:
on Dec. 26 and Feb. 1, when she called 14 times and nine times, respectively.


The first occurred before she was in cahoots with authorities.
But on Feb. 1, Frey called Buehler, her police handler, 19 times.


That same morning, Frey placed two calls to a polygraph service. Sources said Peterson offered to
submit to a lie detector test, but the plan never materialized. Peterson called Frey four times that day.


Other notable days during that period:

Dec. 31, Peterson called Frey four times the day a massive vigil was held for his missing wife.
When he called is unknown. Frey received 13 incoming calls that day, including two within 15
minutes of the vigil's start, one in the middle of it, one at its end and two others later than night.t


Jan. 24, the day Frey revealed the affair publicly. She didn't call Peterson that day, but he
called her once; the next day, they exchanged five calls.


Jan. 27, the day Peterson taped his interview for ABC's "Good Morning America." The two spoke
three times on the phone. After the show aired the first segment of a two-part interview
with Diane Sawyer the next day, Frey called Peterson's cell phone for a call that
lasted 23 minutes. She called a second time later, and he called her twice as well.


Feb. 10, Frey's 28th birthday as well as Laci Peterson's due date. Also on this day,
nude photos of Frey began appearing on some National Enquirer newsstands.
Frey dialed Peterson's numbers four times that day, and he called her once.


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